I'm just going to stick this here and let you ladies enjoy

Teddy917 · May 2014

http://www.weddingpartyapp.com/blog/2014/04/23/how-to-choose-your-bridesmaids-handy-point-system-brides/

thesummersky · May 2014

Wow - I haven't even clicked the link yet, but from the words in the URL, I can tell it's going to be bad.

mrscaty · May 2014

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

Artemischief · May 2014

Ugh.

Statute of limitations? Obligations? Hell no!

I just chose who I wanted, imagine that.

PrincessOfHavoc · May 2014

My MOH gets all the points except for the bridezilla negatives. Technically I shouldn't give her the 10 sibling, butclose enough. Plus, 4 as DF's sister and 4 as my brother's wife. Which is why I give her the sibling 10 also.

My sister however is not likely to even be invited as I'm so sick of her and I don't give a fuck if that starts a family war. Given my brother refuses to invite her to anything and my dad believes she'd only cause drama and problems, the important family won't have problems.

Yup - my brother and I are married/engaged to siblings. DF and brother have been friends for years, and the four of us just always were running around in a pack. DF's sister is my BFF, and after a rather drunken NYE party, she called me about seeing if I minded her and brother actually dating. Told her not as long she didn't mind if I was with her brother. Best and weirdest drunken hookups ever.

VulgarGirl · May 2014

ladygoldfish said:

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

But...but...I don't have a sister!!! What am I going to do!?!?!?! I've got two brothers, if I toss a dress on one of them will that work?

HisGirlFriday13 · May 2014

Damn. None of my BMs made it above 3 points.

Oooh....does that mean I get a re-do??

delujm0 · May 2014

i really wish that link wasn't blocked at work, because this sounds epic.

photokitty · May 2014

HisGirlFriday13 said:

Damn. None of my BMs made it above 3 points.

Oooh....does that mean I get a re-do??

Being around none of your BMs just makes you happy? I would have assumed all BMs would at least get that 5 points. Why pick someone if it doesn't make you happy to be around them?

ElcaB · May 2014

"To help narrow down the candidates, first, list everyone who's in the running..."

What is this, a presidential election or a selection of BMs?

ElcaB · May 2014

Ermahgerd, there's actually a POINT SYSTEM?

smalfrie19 · May 2014

mm I chose my bff as my MOH and my sister as my BM ...but their "scores" were switched.

HisGirlFriday13 · May 2014

photokitty said:

HisGirlFriday13 said:

Damn. None of my BMs made it above 3 points.

Oooh....does that mean I get a re-do??

Being around none of your BMs just makes you happy? I would have assumed all BMs would at least get that 5 points. Why pick someone if it doesn't make you happy to be around them?

I loved, loved, loved the girls who were my BMs, which is why I asked them. But I asked them knowing their limitations, which is that they are sometimes difficult people to be around.

delujm0 said:

i really wish that link wasn't blocked at work, because this sounds epic.

@delujm0:

Photo attached for you.

VulgarGirl · May 2014

"other significant leading ladies"

Well fuck me, I've got two guys standing up with me. Is that wrong? Is my marriage going to be invalid? I just picked people I loved....I didn't think about their genitals at all.

theartistformerlyknownas · May 2014

HisGirlFriday13 said:

photokitty said:

HisGirlFriday13 said:

Damn. None of my BMs made it above 3 points.

Oooh....does that mean I get a re-do??

Being around none of your BMs just makes you happy? I would have assumed all BMs would at least get that 5 points. Why pick someone if it doesn't make you happy to be around them?

I loved, loved, loved the girls who were my BMs, which is why I asked them. But I asked them knowing their limitations, which is that they are sometimes difficult people to be around.

delujm0 said:

i really wish that link wasn't blocked at work, because this sounds epic.

@delujm0:

Photo attached for you.

I love all my friends, but that doesn't mean some of them don't annoy the everloving fuck out of me sometimes. My friends are human. So am I.

kaos16 · May 2014

I love the comments of the poor, sad brides who think it's a great idea and want to use it. Clearly they haven't been to The Knot!

trulymarvelous · May 2014

Ah yes, I have seen this before in a bridal magazine my mom gave me. I think I'll stick with my feelings about my friends rather than some ridiculous tally system.

melbenso · May 2014

MagicInk said:

ladygoldfish said:

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

But...but...I don't have a sister!!! What am I going to do!?!?!?! I've got two brothers, if I toss a dress on one of them will that work?

Only if he has the right bone structure.

sarawifenow · May 2014

I actually chuckled at the point system because I was mentally adding up all of my BMs points. Haha!

PrincessOfHavoc · May 2014

MagicInk said:

ladygoldfish said:

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

But...but...I don't have a sister!!! What am I going to do!?!?!?! I've got two brothers, if I toss a dress on one of them will that work?

If I got SIL involved, with enough sad puppy eyes, I'm betting I could get my brother to wear a dress.

Ok, and large amounts of alcohol. Like a keg of Jager.

SapphireCounselor · May 2014

MagicInk said:

ladygoldfish said:

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

But...but...I don't have a sister!!! What am I going to do!?!?!?! I've got two brothers, if I toss a dress on one of them will that work?

I only have one brother too. I would have asked him to stand with me, but DH stole him for his side.

pinkshorts27 · May 2014

MagicInk said:

ladygoldfish said:

That's the Most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Basically, you have to have your sister as MOH. I'm calling bull.

But...but...I don't have a sister!!! What am I going to do!?!?!?! I've got two brothers, if I toss a dress on one of them will that work?

I only have one brother too. I would have asked him to stand with me, but DH stole him for his side.

My fi stole my brother too. They get along really well. I'm actually jealous at how well they get along.

PrincessOfHavoc · May 2014

My fiance stole my brother also. So I stole his sister.

sweetwisconsin · May 2014

Because someone has to do the readings...ouch!

Might as well add...and hand out the programs or worse a personal attendant.

I'm just going to stick this here and let you ladies enjoy

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