Soontobelittle had good advice. If every time I called my BFF and all she talked about was the wedding I would be distant also. And other thing, why is kicking her out the first response? My first response would be "hey how is life anything going on I should know about". Leave the wedding out of it. It quite possible soon-to-be-BFF has something major going on OP doesn't know about.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.
It's offensive, yet they call us bitches and whatnot.
This. I always roll my eyes when people call us mean. This is by far the NICEST forum I have ever been on. Yeah there is tons of snark, but no personal attacks, no stupid name calling (And when there is that poster usually gets banned) and the people here are pretty damn nice. Much nicer than calling someone a bitch etc. just because they disagree. WW and trolls can call us mean all they want, we're not the ones calling others bitches the moment they disagree.
ETA just clicked on the link: DAMN. They all jumped down her throat so quickly! And WE'RE the bitches? They are so nasty! What a bunch of nasty, horrible people. WW is awful.
I actually do not care about camo. Like at all. Not my thing, but hey, DH wore linen pants, a button down Tommy Bahama shirt and flip-flops. People do think that appropriate either.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.
Re: Should I?
But seriously, typically anyone who posts on the side of proper etiquette over there is promptly labeled a bitch or a troll.
ETA just clicked on the link:
DAMN. They all jumped down her throat so quickly! And WE'RE the bitches? They are so nasty! What a bunch of nasty, horrible people. WW is awful.
http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/camo/51593a8e881c0c33.html?page=1
Hahaha that was you?
I'm the fuck out.
That's because she happens to be one of us!
So glad I didn't accidentally find my way over there! lol