Engaged in August 2013 and happy as a clam! In regards to planning, my fiance simply said "just tell me where to be and what to wear." Judging by some other posts and answers from some engaged male friends, this is a typical response.lol However, from experience of being in other people's weddings, grooms seem to change their minds about what they want to be involved in once they see the bride calling all of the shots (Cake, decor, food, etc). I'm curious, what stages of planning do you include a "quiet" groom in and how often to do you update him on options? My fear is that I will end up presenting him with too many choices and overwhelm him or that I won't tell him enough and that may lead to arguments and lost deposits. Thoughts? Thank you and congratulations to you all!