My 11 year old niece is one of my bridesmaids, and I was planning to go out this weekend to finish up her gift. She is a competitive dancer, and loves owls, so I have already gotten her a really cute owl print cosmetic bag for her stage makeup. She also loves books, so I was planning to get her a nice keepsake journal and an amazon gift card to round out the gift.
Tonight I was talking to my SIL (niece's mom) and she asked if there was any special jewelry I wanted her daughter to wear for the wedding. Wedding day jewelry is a very common bridesmaid gift in my family, and I get the feeling that that is what she was expecting me to do. She seemed rather disappointed when I told her "No, whatever you want to do is fine." She then went on to say that the last wedding my niece had been in the bride had gotten her diamond earrings that she has been dying to wear again, so she would probably wear those since she didn't have anything else. I think she may have been trying to drop a hint there.
I was pretty happy about my gift choices for her, but now I'm wondering if I should just get her a necklace or something. Our wedding is next weekend, and I'm afraid that my SIL just assumed I'd be getting her jewelry and may now feel like she has to run out and buy something. I don't want to inconvenience her.
My niece likes jewelry, and it's not outside the realm of things I'd consider for her as a birthday-type gift. Still though, I'm not sure how I feel about it for this.
What do you guys think?