Yes, I'm sorry its another Kids at the wedding post.
We invited only down to our first cousins and spread (via word of mouth) that kids are not invited. I've been asked by cousins, step siblings, and friends if they could bring their kids and I said no. However, some of my 1st cousins are kids- 1 yr old, 3 yr old, and 4 yr old. Just got the RSVP that their mom is planning to bring all of them.
How do I inform these folks who's kids I declined to invite that the kids at the event are my 1st cousins and that's the list we stuck to?
I'm certain they'll be passive aggressively angry at me once they see the other kids there.