There's been a lot of posts about post-wedding brunches, but I couldn't find a definitive answer to this and was wondering if I could get some input from the etiquette queens!
The restaurant at our hotel serves breakfast until noon for a fairly reasonable price-I think like $10.95 for a great sideboard. FI and I are planning to have breakfast there the morning after the wedding, and we thought it'd be nice to let OOT guests know that if they want to come by and say hello/eat breakfast or have a cup of coffee with us before they leave that day, we'd love to see them. I should mention that neither of the hotels that we have room blocks at have a free breakfast buffet, so OOT guests will need to get breakfast somewhere in the area anyway (the two hotels are less than ten minutes apart on foot in a downtown area).
I just can't figure out how to let people know that we'll be there without making it sound like we're hosting it. I wanted to put the information on the insert that we're putting in our wedding welcome bags, but saying "We'll be having breakfast at (location) on Saturday morning-feel free to stop by!" seems so ambiguous to me. As a guest, I'm not sure that I'd be clear on who is paying for breakfast. Any better suggestions?
(Also, I know that a lot of people say that you should spread the news via word-of-mouth, but I just want to make sure that the news actually gets out to everyone, and I probably won't talk to all of the OOT guests until the reception.)