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Ah! BM can't come to the wedding

and I'm super bummed! She is one of my oldest friends! I'm so going to miss her, but I feel worse for her than I do myself because it means she doesn't get Christmas off to visit her family.

She is in residency program with the military that just started and isn't allowed leave during November, December or Jan. Bummer :(

I couldn't even imagine replacing her because she isn't a number, but my close friend. I have no respect for special snowflakes who try to replace them.  So snowflakes, I know how it feel and it sucks, but I won't replace her and I will be sending her flowers similar to the bouquets and still send her a bm gift.

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Re: Ah! BM can't come to the wedding

  • YOU are super nice!
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    I'm the fuck
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  • Awww what a bummer!  Good on you for being so understanding, I'm sure she feels just absolutely terrible (even though she's obviously done nothing wrong).  
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  • So sorry to hear that! I like that you're still including her.  Do you live somewhere with a big military presence? If so, check out the Military Brides board for ways to honour her :) 
  • I'm sorry your BM can't make it! What a bummer that she can't get leave for the holidays or for your wedding.
  • Awww I'm sorry to hear that! You are really sweet :)
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  • ElcaBElcaB member
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    That's a bummer, but good for you for knowing it's not right to replace a friend like a pair of socks with holes in them. 
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  • That stinks!
  • and I'm super bummed! She is one of my oldest friends! I'm so going to miss her, but I feel worse for her than I do myself because it means she doesn't get Christmas off to visit her family.

    She is in residency program with the military that just started and isn't allowed leave during November, December or Jan. Bummer :(

    I couldn't even imagine replacing her because she isn't a number, but my close friend. I have no respect for special snowflakes who try to replace them.  So snowflakes, I know how it feel and it sucks, but I won't replace her and I will be sending her flowers similar to the bouquets and still send her a bm gift.
    That's really sweet! You are a good friend.


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  • KaurisKauris member
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    I loved your post not because your BM won't make it, but because of your supportive attitude toward the situation, even though it makes you sad.
  • oh, that stinks! I am sure she is bummed but you are clearly a great friend.
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  • That really sucks. I'm sure she will appreciate the gift and the flowers too.

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  • Aw that stinks! Maybe send her a cute picture of the day though, I would have loved to see my friend at her wedding if I couldn't make it. You could even FaceTime her to still share some of the day's excitement!
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