My husband is a loving and engaged father who takes great care of our 2-year-old daughter. We have now had two Mother’s Days come and go without his acknowledging the day in any way. This past Mother’s Day we were in the car together and Mother’s Day was mentioned on the radio, so his ignoring the day seemed purposeful. My question now is how should I acknowledge Father’s Day? I realize a marriage based on tit for tat is not a healthy one, however I feel like a real schmuck honoring him when he could not be bothered.