http://www.buzzfeed.com/peggy/these-diagrams-are-everything-you-need-to-plan-your-wedding?sub=2937477_2331180&s=mobile#2331180I hope the link actually works for this one. Some is good advice. But it tells what dress codes you can "inflict" on your guests. It doesn't even try to sugarcoat it. It mentions duties and jobs to delegate. And other etiquette fails.