Where would you seat a toddler at a wedding? My sister (also a bridesmaid) and her boyfriend have a 2 year old that is in the "let's be crazy at the dinner table" phase. If my sister didn't have a toddler, I would probably seat her with our cousins or some of my friends that she might like. Since she has my niece, I'm thinking of seating them with my mom/the family members that are always around the baby. I love my niece, but I don't particularly enjoy sitting down for meals with her at this stage so I'm assuming that other childless people would feel the same way. Do other people feel this way or am I being bitchy?