What's etiquette re: maybes after RSVPs are due?
For example, rsvps are past due. And you've gotten a bunch of people who opt to tell you verbally maybe, instead of declining.
And there's a host of reason, such as moving within a few weeks of wedding, pregnancy, trying to get time off, etc etc.
I get the reasons, but I don't want to hold 10-12 seats for people who wants the option of deciding that week or that weekend whether they can/want to come to the wedding.
What are your thoughts?