Yesterday, my MOH told me that she had the opportunity to go on an all-inclusive, paid-for trip to Florida ( we are in CA). The bad part? It was the weekend of my bridal party that SHE and my mom are planning. She asked me for permission to go, and if it were possible to move the bridal party to the following weekend. I told her I would ask my mom if she wanted to do it. At first, I was really happy for her and excited. So I asked my mom what she thought and she said she didn't want to move the date because it wouldn't be fair to the others in the bridal party to switch their days again (we had already switched the day once). So okay, I relayed that info to her. My mom said she would take over and do it herself, and for her not to feel bad because at least she had helped with the planning. When I gave my MOH the news, I had to tell her through text bc she was at work, and couldnt wait to hear what the verdict was. Okay. So the MOH stated she felt bad because she was presented with two once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, my bridal shower and this trip. She continued to say that she was going to go to the trip. And she would bring me back something from Florida because she loves me that much. After reading that, I was flabergasted. She really chose to go on this trip and ditch my bridal party. I am really hurt, and I dont know if I am over exxagerating because it's my wedding, or if I'm PMSing, or if I am right in feeling this way. I understand that her life is not going to stop for this wedding, but I'm pretty sure Florida will still be there when the wedding is over, maybe not paid, but it'll be there.