I have a small budget and a large family/community base that I would like to share in my day ( approx. 200+) My thought was to do a cookie and punch reception at the church after the ceremony where we could greet everyone and then for immediate family and wedding party (approx 30-40) have the formal reception at another location about an hour and a half later. this would allow me to see those that came only for the wedding and yet they still have a token of appreciate from us for sharing our day. What I'm hearing is that I'll hurt people feelings or they will feel less than or slighted if they are not at the "main" reception. I'm aware I can't please everyone but is there a problem with what I have planned? I'm starting to have panic attacks about it and ready to do the JP and leave everyone out but I want my wedding. Help!