Just wanted to see if anyone else had this problem...
I am not exactly fond of my dad (alcoholic, abusive to my mom before divorce, did not assist my mom financially, etc etc), but to his credit he has improved quite a bit where I was willing to invite him to the wedding. I originally was going to have only my mom (the one who raised me) walk me down the aisle, but she said I had to have him do it too, and I reluctantly agreed. However, my dad is now very excited to have a father daughter dance. I hate him even hugging me, and I especially do not want to touch him. My FI isn't having a mother and son dance so I was going to play it off as being sensitive to FI's family, but I know he would be heart broken. Should I tell him no dance, or just suck it up? Any alternative ideas? I thought about having a song where I danced with him, my mom and step dad. (And since people ask this, he is not providing for the wedding in any shape or form, and that is ok). Thank you everyone!