Hi all-
My fiancé and I have hit a wall and my wedding assignment was actually to come to you guys for help. Here's the deal:
Both he and I are non-religious, which requires a lot of explaining to come to the point but at the end of the day, we want a non-religious ceremony that will still respect our families' beliefs. I've found some good vows online that seem to meet this, so far so good. But now we've hit a snag. Finding an officiant for the wedding.
We are getting married in a very rural community in south Alabama- we chose the site based on its significance to his family and us (it's his grandpas grade school and is just down the road from their farm where he asked me to marry him). We have pastors that are friends of the family, but they are of course not willing to perform a secular wedding ceremony (which I respect). However I am concerned about how to go about finding a justice of the peace or someone else who IS willing to perform the service. My fiancé doesn't want a close friend or family member to perform it, as he wants them to not have a job other than being at the wedding. I am okay with that but I am concerned that just calling up the local people in such a small, historically conservative town will land us a justice of the peace that is ALSO unwilling to perform a marriage ceremony without some mention of a Christian God.
Does anyone have any good advice on how to find someone to marry us?