My bridal shower is Labor Day weekend and my stepmom had
sent out invitation about 2 weeks ago. Anyways I of course expect that some
people won’t be able to make it. Two of my bridesmaids won’t be able to make it
which I am bummed about but I understand as both live in different states. My
FH cousin will be moving to Texas in August so she won’t be able to attend as
well. However I am pretty upset about a friend that just told me this morning
that she can’t make it. She had texted me a few days after getting the invitation
that she would be coming! Apparently she found out that she has a family picnic
to go to. What bothers me about this is 1. It’s my FH best friend’s girlfriend
2. I just don’t see why she can’t try to attend both. I’m pretty sure my shower
starts a 1pm.
Just a little backstory. This friend and I were pretty close,
then 2 summers ago she broke up with FH’s best friend out of the blue for
stupid reasons that I can’t even begin to explain. Wrote a letter and left it
on his car one night. I never agreed with it but supported FH best friend (We've known each other since elementary school) and
tried my best to comfort him. She sorta went her own way during this time and
we didn’t talk as much. But one of the 1st times after they broke up
we were at a party with all of our friends and I go to say hi and she barely
even acknowledges me! I was pretty upset as I thought are friendship shouldn’t have
been affected by the breakup. Well 3-4 months later they get back together. And since then are relationship hasn’t been
the same. I get things being a little weird since they brokeup and got back together but I feel like at this point that we are way past that. My FH thinks that she just has some social anxiety or issues with
being around people but we have known each other now for 4 years! Sorry for the
long rant. Just need to put this some where…<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />