I am so happy to have found this board! I am 44 and just got engaged for the first time this past weekend. It will be a first wedding for both of us. My FI and I don't want a big wedding as we're both serious introverts, so we're planning to go somewhere like Disney with just us and my 13 year old daughter. That way she can be involved (important to us) and then we'll take a honeymoon later on that's just the two of us. I've been looking for somewhere to talk to people in my age group, since I just can't relate to the younger brides I've read. It's so nice to find I'm not the only one who feels this way; I thought it was just me!