So my fiance and I both own a home and it's both of our second marriages. It's been a big stressor of what to do once we get married. I own a ranch house and he owns a two family with his mother living in an apartment attached. His son also lives with him half the time. He has a small mortgage since he bought cheap and gutted it out and redid a lot. My mortgage is twice as much. We have decided to try and sell.or rent to later sell my house since he has put his heart into his house, cheaper mortgage and will have a rental property. I am super stressed about this whole process. On top of the fact I know my parents will be really upset I'm getting rid of my home. They've been very proud of me for owning a home on my own and being able to keep it in the divorce. I'm stressed about how they feel so much it makes me feel sick. I hate it. I'm 35 years old and I feel as if it shouldn't matter. It's my life and what we want to do. Ugh. Anyone else deal with this? I just needed to vent and wish I didn't worry so much!