I purchased a wedding gift for a friend from their registry. I personally shipped the item to the couple's apartment complex, and received a delivery confirmation email from UPS. Several months after the wedding, the friend mentioned that they noticed I purchased the gift off their registry, but they never received it. We've tried contacting their apartment complex, as well as UPS, and the package cannot be found. The package had insurance, but UPS is not willing to honor that because they have a "confirmed delivery." The apartment complex says they have no idea. So I guess we have to assume that the package was stolen from the apartment complex. Anyway... point of this whole story is, what is the etiquette here? This is a very good friend and I hate the thought of them not having received our gift, but it would be very expensive to replace this gift (it was a lot of money to spend the first time around, let alone to duplicate that cost). But is the proper thing for me to suck it up and buy and send the gift again (to a more secure address this time)? The selfish part of me feels like it's not my responsibility considering I have a delivery confirmation... but I don't want to be rude. Has anyone run into this issue before? What would you do?