Fi and I are getting married in California and our reception is at a hotel. We're having a very small wedding (maybe 30 guests) as we are on a tight budget and most of our guests will be coming from out of town so we want to get discounted block rooms for them. The hotel we'd be having our reception at is a 4 star hotel and offered a discounted rate of $140/night but requires a minimum of 10 rooms.
Since our wedding will be on a weekday and will be out of town for most guests, we're not anticipating a high RSVP rate (although we are prepared to accommodate for 100% RSVP) so we're not sure how many rooms we need and are worried that we can't meet the minimum 10 rooms; and with such high prices and the better part of the guest list being college students or recently graduated (I just graduated myself) we'd like to keep the price to a minimum, so I've been calling other hotels in the area to see if they can give us better prices, but that also means that we'd be going from a 4 star hotel to a 2 star, going by what my college friends said their budgets are.
So my questions are:
1. If not all of the rooms in your room block are filled, do you have to pay for the unused rooms?
2. Would you set up room blocks in more than one hotel for such a small wedding?
3. Would you skip the room blocks all together and just list hotel suggestions with prices on your website?