My future MIL has so graciously offered to throw us a rehearsal dinner the day before our wedding. I am so very appreciative of this, however we are butting heads about a day-before "Gap."
Due to some other obligations our Pastor is only available to meet with us to do a proper rehearsal at the church at Noon the day before the wedding. I have no problems with this. My thought was once we are done with the rehearsal we could then do a late lunch "rehearsal dinner" Or just call it a "grooms dinner;" I don't know the difference.
Anyway, MIL made up invitations to the rehearsal dinner portion of the day since she is - again, so super sweet - hosting it. However, She put 5pm on the invitations for the dinner. Now I am worried because our rehearsal at the church will take, maybe, an hour. I have people in the wedding party traveling across town. What are they going to do between 1 o'clock and 5 when the dinner starts??? Her thought is that they could go home, pickup their families & kids, and then come back for the rehearsal dinner, but I personally feel like it's very rude to ask someone to drive 30+ miles for a rehearsal, then 30+miles home, and then 30+ miles back to our location for dinner, and THEN BACK to their home again. I seem to be the only one who sees a problem with this though.
Please be honest - am I being crazy, or is this really a problem??