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Buzzfeed: Bridesmaid Problems..

Re: Buzzfeed: Bridesmaid Problems..

  • kat1114kat1114 member
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    I don't know why brides feel it's okay to do things like this. One of my Facebook friends is in an upcoming wedding and was tagged in the brides' status that said "I can't believe only 100 days till I become the future Mrs. SoandSo. Maids, I hope you're ready to start crafting!"

    So not only are you going to force your "friends" into slave labor for your wedding, but you're going to tag all of them in the post so the world knows too?

    I just can't.
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  • goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 member
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    I have a coworker who has a cousin getting married.  My coworker will be a BM.  She looks terrified because her sister (who is also a BM) already got recruited to go on invitation duty.  Chick isn't getting married until June 2015 and they've already been drafted.

    A BM also got kicked out of the WP because "she was on again/off again with a groomsman so much that they just weren't sure she'd even be going to the wedding or dating that guy so that was awkward and she was told to step down."  I get this vibe that BMs stop being people and start being little unpaid employees that you dress up to your whims to certain people.
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  • InkdancerInkdancer member
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    I do not feel sorry for you. You buy a dress a size too small, that's your problem.

    The rest, yeah that is nuts. I hope my girls understand that I love them and don't want them to stress out like this!
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  • sophhabobophasophhabobopha member
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    What fucking psycho brides.
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  • CamiSeleneCamiSelene member
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    Inkdancer said:
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    I do not feel sorry for you. You buy a dress a size too small, that's your problem.

    The rest, yeah that is nuts. I hope my girls understand that I love them and don't want them to stress out like this!
    Agreed about #17... 

    I have a friend that was told by the store to order a bigger size because the line runs small but she insisted on getting the size she normally gets. Now she's been complaining to me about her dress being too small. I gave her other options such as getting a different dress or altering the back to make it a corset (it will zip up but she is very uncomfortable and probably wouldn't be able to sit down) but she said it's fine, she would diet. I told her that was her choice but I didn't want her to be uncomfortable in the wedding. However she is still complaining about it and we're under 2 weeks away from the wedding. I don't know what more I could do for her.

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  • smalfrie19smalfrie19 member
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    Omg because god forbid you ask the only girls you love and trust in this world to be on the same page as you for the one fucking day in your life that's supposed to mean everything to you.. I dont even plan on getting married but this is how I know there's something seriously wrong with our generation.. They can NEVER be bothered to do anything for anyone else at their own expense without complaining about it...thats why we're making the worst students, workers and now aparently friends and bridesmaids.. Stop asking yourself if everything you do makes YOU happy for a second...
    Comment on the article....I can't even.
    While I am totally on board with not treating BM's like slaves...really though there is a slight point to this. Whatever happened to just being there for someone without complaining or doing it because there is something in it for you.
     
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  • VulgarGirlVulgarGirl member
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    CamiSelene said:
    Inkdancer said:
    Re: 17--

    I do not feel sorry for you. You buy a dress a size too small, that's your problem.

    The rest, yeah that is nuts. I hope my girls understand that I love them and don't want them to stress out like this!
    Agreed about #17... 

    I have a friend that was told by the store to order a bigger size because the line runs small but she insisted on getting the size she normally gets. Now she's been complaining to me about her dress being too small. I gave her other options such as getting a different dress or altering the back to make it a corset (it will zip up but she is very uncomfortable and probably wouldn't be able to sit down) but she said it's fine, she would diet. I told her that was her choice but I didn't want her to be uncomfortable in the wedding. However she is still complaining about it and we're under 2 weeks away from the wedding. I don't know what more I could do for her.
    Just let her be a martyr. Some people love being fucking martyrs.
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  • chibiyuichibiyui member
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    When on earth am I going to use a bridesmaid hoodie or apron again? #BridesmaidProblems

    TRUTH.
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