When I tried on my dress the consultant couldn't find the actual sash that comes with the dress right away so I tried it on with a different one (just to get the idea)...turns out it was a happy accident because once she found the one that actually went with the dress I liked the other one better. I couldn't switch out the one it came with so I had to pay $200 for it but the dress is coming with the original as well. I might sell it to make up for the extra money I spent. Or should I take the consultants advice and use it somewhere else like around my flowers? What would you do??