How much are you going/did you tip the priest who performed your wedding? At my church, you have to pay a stipend of $500 which is for the organist, priest and wedding planner... should I also tip the organist and planner?? I was planning on just tipping the priest $100.. while talking to my brother last night he mentioned he tipped his priest $300 when they got married.... I don't exactly have an extra $200 in my budget anywhere, but if needed I guess I could squeeze it.
Background on my priest: I am currently living in NC but getting married in my childhood church in PA where my parents also got married and my grandfather was fairly active (everyone knows him). That being said, I met with this priest once and he just recently came to my parish last year (I've been in NC going on 3 yrs in August, so it's not like I could of met him more). He also did not originally want to perform my marriage and tried to pass me off to another church's priest (still at my church though) but that priest took off the weekend of my wedding. My priest then said he wasn't sure who would be marrying us, but he'd find someone in the diocese. A week ago I found out that he now will be marrying us. There is Saturday mass at my church at 4pm so he will not be attending the reception (nor did I really ask him to, but the secretary said some brides invite him, some don't and since I didn't know who my priest was going to be, I never sent a formal invitation)
That's probably more information than needed...