Is it strange to have a baby shower after the baby arrives? My cousin and his wife have been trying to adopt for about 6 years and on Monday they finally got a little girl. Yay! The thing is they were totally unprepared. The people who were originally going to adopt the girl found out they were pregnant and decided to pass up on the adoption. So my cousin and wife literally got the call on Saturday night asking if they would adopt the baby. So a couple other cousins and I were thinking about throwing a shower for them so they can get some not as crucial essentials that they are going to need. Would this be against etiquette or are we ok here?