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Countdown is in single digits!!!!

Hi ladies! I am currently sitting at work and am freaking out a bit. My wedding is in 9 days! Single digits!!! AHHH! I'm this weird bundle of excitement and nerves and am having the hardest time functioning at work right now. I'm also not sleeping super well. I keep having these nightmares about things that could go wrong at the wedding. For example, last night my main dream was that (for various reasons) my ceremony started one and a half hours later than it was supposed to and all of the guests left! I've had dreams where I walk all the way down the aisle and stand before my FI, only to have him laugh at my dress and walk away. There have been several others whose details I just don't remember.

Regardless, I'm freaking out and was hoping you ladies had some words of wisdom or encouragement to help me get through today?

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Re: Countdown is in single digits!!!!

  • Oh congratulations! These next 9 days are going to fly by and soon you will be coming back to us as an OMH with wonderful stories about her wedding and fabulous pictures! I'm really excied for you!

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  • Enjoy it! 

    It will get crazy so do your best to remain calm and remember the purpose of all this is to marry your love. If that happens then the day is perfect!
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  • I know the feeling! I just realized I'm getting married two weeks from today. 14 days!! 2 weeks from this moment I will be getting my hair and makeup done FOR MY WEDDING. Eeek!

    Lol and OP will be an old married lady by then ;)
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  • Yaaaaay it'll come so fast so enjoy every second of it! Have fun and don't forget to post pics after! Don't stress too much.
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  • We're date twins!!! Soooo excited for you! I am a total ball of nerves too. I am having ridiculous anxiety dreams. FFS, I dreamed last night that my dad died and couldn't walk me down the aisle. I woke up in tears. I am pretty sure FI thinks he's marrying a crazy person!!

    I keep telling myself that no matter what, we will be husband and wife. And we have good food and alcohol and everyone will have so much fun because they love us and they will either a. not notice any small mishap or b. be able to overlook if everything doesn't go 100% perfectly! Good luck!! :)
  • How exciting!

    I got super excited because today is the 100 day mark for FI and me!!
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  • StitelME, I had wedding dreams, too.  I had a dream that my MOH (my sister) insisted on wearing a wedding dress to my wedding.  And, since she is the princess of the family, my parents tried to convince me that it was okay.  Then, we had to climb ladders to get to our venue (which was a Catholic church in the burbs). 

    Regarding sleep, if you're having issue sleeping - have you ever tried Unisom?  I wouldn't try it on a work day, but that has always helped me when I needed a good night's sleep.
  • SarahRN87 said:
    We're date twins!!! Soooo excited for you! I am a total ball of nerves too. I am having ridiculous anxiety dreams. FFS, I dreamed last night that my dad died and couldn't walk me down the aisle. I woke up in tears. I am pretty sure FI thinks he's marrying a crazy person!!

    I keep telling myself that no matter what, we will be husband and wife. And we have good food and alcohol and everyone will have so much fun because they love us and they will either a. not notice any small mishap or b. be able to overlook if everything doesn't go 100% perfectly! Good luck!! :)
     
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  • StitelME, I had wedding dreams, too.  I had a dream that my MOH (my sister) insisted on wearing a wedding dress to my wedding.  And, since she is the princess of the family, my parents tried to convince me that it was okay.  Then, we had to climb ladders to get to our venue (which was a Catholic church in the burbs). 

    Regarding sleep, if you're having issue sleeping - have you ever tried Unisom?  I wouldn't try it on a work day, but that has always helped me when I needed a good night's sleep.

    I haven't tried Unisom...The only thing I've ever done for sleep was take some melatonin occasionally but even that rarely. People in my family tend to react weirdly to sleep meds so i've never really tried much.

    SarahRN87, my FI knows he's marrying a crazy person. I bribe him with hugs and buy him video games though so he doesn't seem to mind. :-P


     

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  • How exciting!

    I'm having all sorts of crazy dreams. FI got annoyed at me the other night because I woke up having a panic attack when I dreamed that I walked down the aisle and he wasn't there. He reminded me that I woke him by elbowing him while he was wrapped around me in our sleep. He's not going anywhere but I still keep panicking!

    It's going to be absolutely perfect. Relax!
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  • I'm getting married on 8/16 too! I had a dream that I couldn't get make up on. Everyone was refusing to apply it for me, so I decided to do it myself, but then the make up would go onto my face. Then I had a dream that as I went to hug people, my dress fell and my boobs fell out. I was complaining to mom about these dreams and all the other things that could go wrong, and she said "no one would know if anything goes wrong. Everyone would just think that's what we planned to have happen." That made me feel better. Also, yesterday was my last day of work until I return an old married hag!!!!! So excited!!!!
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