Hi, so not sure if I'm being weird, but yesterday a friend of mine who is not bridal party, but still a long-time friend went with me to my dress fitting. She's been asking to go for a while and we both were on lunch break, so she popped in with me and we chatted and visited while it happened.
She also took a bunch of photos.
As soon as I got back to the office I noticed that she put on FB that I looked great in my dress (thank you) and since she can't share because FI isher FB friend, if ANYBODY wants to see me in the dress she will text them photos. The she sent them out to anybody that asked, including people I barely know and people who work at her office.
So, I thought about it for 24 hours and then sent her a message telling her that I appreciated that she was excited about the dress and was so glad to see her yesterday, but would she mind not publicly asking if anybody wants to see the dress. I said if people ask in person that would be ok, but that I feel odd with people I don know or barely know asking to see me dress and that I really wanted the dress to be a surprise at the ceremony.
I don't know if that was ok. I was just bothered. The most I put on FB is very vague non detail stuff in general terms (ex: sis and I shopped together today for fun wedding stuff then grabbed a scary movie!!).
Was that rude? I really do want my dress to be a surprise to my friends and I don't like that people I don't really know are asking to see my dress. I get that it was done with good intentions, but now I have random friends of friends messaging me about my dress...
Also, I'm wearing no make-up and glasses in the pics. It was a lunchtime fitting and there are pins all over me. Basically, I'm a mess. and now those pics are out in the world. Ok...well...it's done. It's Friday and I can have a big old glass of wine tonight.