Hey everyone! Here's the question - my brother divorced his first wife 15 years ago. He has been remarried now for over 10, and his ex has been remarried for 7. Our family had lost touch with her until I ran into her in a prenatal class 5 years ago. Since then, all the moms from that class have become friends. We do all kinds of things together. To keep my renewed relationship with his ex from my brother I've been running 2 birthday parties every year for my (almost) 5 year old daughter. But now I'm getting married & I want to invite her & her family to the wedding. We are all too close not to. My brother (and mainly my sister-in-law) could refuse to come to my wedding because of it. Feel free to comment now. wwyd? How would you handle it? tia!