http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1046669/brides-facebook-post-lists-reasons-you-werent-invited?adbsc=social_20140815_29849756
Sorry if this is a repost. My favorite is the last line, "If you didn't get an invite and are planning on coming, let me or ___ know. AKA: If you chose to ignore etiquette as much as I did- then feel free to come to my wedding.