My fiancé and I are trying to plan a small (50 guests max) casual wedding. We are leaning towards next September 2015...but very easy going and open to ideas. I'm having trouble finding a venue that doesn't have a guest requirement...yet is still affordable ($100 or so a head) We don't want a banquet hall type setting, were looking for a fun, informal vibe...with plenty of booze and no stuffiness!! I looked into Cape May, and that seemed seriously expensive and again, we didn't have enough guests....we're open to ANYWHERE in New Jersey, water (lake or ocean) is a serious plus...even places in PA are possible. ANY suggestions are very much appreciated, as I feel I'm about to start banging my head into walls!