That's pretty much what happened with us re: officiants. We don't want to use anyone from our church (which is not where we're marrying anyway) because, while we know the other church members fairly well, we don't actually know any of the preachers outside of a passing "hello" or two. Instead, we're using a lesbian friend who probably knows us as a couple better than anyone, and who I've known on my own for probably like ten years.
OMG this is so true! LOL. I especially liked the last part, where everyone someone will find something to complain about. Because that is soooo trueeee.
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I'm the fuck out.