I'm losing my mind. I just text my fiance and told him I need to quit my job until after the wedding. I'm so stressed about trying to get stuff done for the wedding, and now we have so many changes coming up over the next several weeks at work...I'm not very pleasant to be around right now haha
OMG!!!!!!!!!! I seriously cannot believe how close everything is! FI asked me last night what we needed to do before the wedding day and my mind just went completely blank. I'm so excited! I just wish I could take the next 6-7 weeks off of work and focus on me and us and the wedding.
I am just so ready for it to be over. My shower is this weekend. My friend and I started working on alterations on my dress yesterday. All we have left is the bustle now.
I feel like I am losing my mind!!! sometimes I am super anxious and feel like I don't have enough time to get everything done, and other times I feel so ready to get it over with and not have to stress. I can't wait to sit back and enjoy being married My mind will be so bored afterwards!
My venue gives you a wedding coordinator the month before the wedding, so I just got her email today. She's added like a billion new items to my to-do list. THere are so many things I have to figure out that I never thought of! Like, where is the guitarist going to sit in the ceremony. Which door should the groom enter from? What is the seating arraignment for my immediate family? Do I want the guest book at the ceremony AND the reception, or just one?
I don't have a coordinator, but my to-do list keeps growing too! I actually just requested a random Wednesday off this month from work because I'm so stressed. I need to get stuff done and I need to get away from work before I totally lose my mind
I feel the same way about wanting to quit my job until after the wedding and devote all of my time to wedding stuff!!! But I am actually so grateful that I have a job in which I'm not really able to think about the wedding all day. There is just so much going on at work. It has been a healthy distraction. I am also loosing my mind with stress. I met with my wedding coordinator last weekend, and bekt14, I feel the same way that you do! I have a million new things to think about that I didn't think of before. I guess that's a good thing though!! My FI asked me what the hell I'm so stressed about, and I actually had a hard time thinking of any 1 particular thing. It's just a zillion little things at once.
Fi texted me last night "One month from now is the night before we fly to [get married]." It was totally unprompted and one of the most romantic things. It's nice to know that he's counting down just like I am.
I can't believe October 5th is coming so soon!! I loved wedding planning and going on pinterest! lol We still need to get a marriage license and a cake topper and other things I can't think of at the moment! I am having a surprise bachelorette party this Saturday I have no idea what they are planning all i know is that it is in NYC lol after the wedding is over I don't know what I am going to do with my life!!! make babies? lol
I also go back and forth between feeling overwhelmed with things to do, and then feeling like there's not much left at the same time! Mostly everything left is confirming I still want the original things I asked for and then writing a lot of checks! I'm excited!!! Only 38 days for me too!!!
38 Days. That is hard to believe. It feels like just yesterday it was 100.
We got our rings and marriage license last Friday (That is how every 3 day weekend should be kicked off). I finished the major part of the favors. Just waiting on the rubber feet for the bottom to come in. We are making a pair of tile "coasters" with our engagement photo on them.
I still need to order the guest book, the LED tealights and finish the table decorations. Thankfully we are getting married in a historical landmark which means the only decorations I can really do are table decorations.
Re: We're getting married NEXT MONTH!
RSVP Date: September 20