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Original BM dress choice clashes with my dress

I had originally told all my bridesmaids to find a short champagne dress to wear for my wedding, whatever style they wanted, whatever designer, etc. The color (and mismatched style) I was aiming for was this:
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However, I bought my wedding gown and it has this champagney-silvery bottom (see middle picture):
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I was with three of my BMs when I got the dress and they thought the bridesmaids in champagne would clash with me, that I wouldn't stand out, and that I might want to consider a different color. Luckily no one has bought a dress yet so I told the other BMs to just put the dress color on hold for now, and that we'd make a decision next year (I'm not getting married until Oct 2015). Would champagne really be too similar to my dress? I'm a little disappointed because this was my "vision" including the guys wearing champagne ties with their black suits. I even wanted the girls in a lighter color so they stood out as BMs. But I definitely don't want everyone to clash either. The whole point of letting them pick their own dresses was to be easy and make everyone comfortable, so I definitely want to pick a color that everyone will love. I think the plan will be to try different BM dresses on next to my dress, but I figured I'd ask fellow knotties to see if anyone has ideas. Thank you!
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Re: Original BM dress choice clashes with my dress

  • I'd say that dress is more ivory with just a silver sheen.  I think your dress would look just fine next to champagne coloured bridesmaids' dresses.
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  • I really think you're over thinking this. It won't clash and no one will overshadow you, period. 

    I think you're spot on going for the mismatched look, I did this and it was one of the best wedding decisions.
  • Oh, also, silver doesn't clash with champagne.  
    I've never seen that gown in person, so maybe it just looks more silver on my screen/more champagne in person?  Below is a bride in champagne toned gown with champagne coloured bridesmaids dresses:
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    Or maybe you could widen the colours you tell them to pick from.  For example, ivory, cream, champagne, etc.:
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  • Thank you, ladies. I think champagne will be fine I just need some reassurance! 
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  • I think the champagne will be fine, but I also would hold off on ordering anyway. A lot can change, including dress sizes, between now and October of next year.
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  • Agree with Liatris. I don't think it would clash at all (they're all complementary neutrals) but your bridesmaids shouldn't be thinking about their dresses over a year out. Wait until next spring.

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  • Agree with PPs - think it will be fine and a year out is a long time.  You may change your mind two to three times more.
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  • Sound advice from PPs.  I don't there will be a problem with the colors clashing.  Also, keep in mind that even if your BMs order their dresses, many companies have a turn around of two months.  There's no need to worry about it right now.
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