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awkward brides maid convo

pinklilly122pinklilly122 member
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I had an awkward conversation today. A girl I used to be really close with told me she wouldn't be mad if I didn't pick her to be a brides maid. I already picked my girls. I used to best friends with this girl but in recent years we've really fallen off. She's basically a hot mess (on probation for dui accident, lives with her parents etc.) and after she's said some nasty things about me, I don't trust her a whole lot either. I still love her to death but actually never even considered her as an option.
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  • holyguacamole79holyguacamole79 member
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  • slothiegalslothiegal member
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    There was a point during my engagement where I was living with three other girls. I asked two in private to be bridesmaids. The other just assumed that she was chosen as well and kept asking when the three of them would go dress shopping. Mwop mwop.
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  • raissyraisraissyrais member
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    That's kind of awkward. But at least she said it herself before you even had to mention it! Unless she's trying to guilt you then that's not nice!
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    slothiegal said:
    There was a point during my engagement where I was living with three other girls. I asked two in private to be bridesmaids. The other just assumed that she was chosen as well and kept asking when the three of them would go dress shopping. Mwop mwop.
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  • beetherybeethery member
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    I guess she's just going to have to be mad then! Her expectations are on her. That's it.
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  • Bubblegum5586Bubblegum5586 member
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    I don't get how people say things like this! There is only one person I would assume I was in their wedding and is that is my sister's someday.
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  • gmcr78gmcr78 member
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    I had a similar conversation with a friend before both of our weddings (they got married 2 weeks before us). She was apologizing for not having me as a bridesmaid, because she chose only cousins. In my brain I was thinking "I hadn't considered you might ask me, and I hadn't considered asking you either". But...good?
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  • pinklilly122pinklilly122 member
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    Lol yeah definitely awkward. I don't think she was trying to guilt me so much as she was fishing to see if Id ask her, or who I picked maybe. She tagged me in a post about the bridal show and we were chit chatting about the wedding colors. Then she just messages me and is like by the way I won't be mad, you know how some people are about that stuff but I understand... then says I hope that doesn't seem like I'm trying to get you to make me be in it. I'm thinking what do I even say to that haha. There is 1 person I didn't pick I'm worried might feel sad about not being picked, but it's not her...didn't even consider her
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  • SenecafSenecaf member
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    I had a girl I once was very close to call me one day to chat. ( I think she was high) it was like a month before the wedding and she asked if she was a bridesmaid. Um, no. Then she didn't show up to the wedding after texting me THE DAY OF for the address. Flake.
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    Senecaf said:
    I had a girl I once was very close to call me one day to chat. ( I think she was high) it was like a month before the wedding and she asked if she was a bridesmaid. Um, no. Then she didn't show up to the wedding after texting me THE DAY OF for the address. Flake.
    Embarrassed but I have to admit that I've done this. We left the invitation at home for a wedding out of state. I had to text the bride for the address. But I think I at least did it the day before. Oh, and we almost missed the grand entrance thanks to a wardrobe malfunction. We showed up as they were lining up to go in.  Yeah, we seemed like awesome friends that day.
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  • KaurisKauris member
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    I had a friend say teh same thing to me, and then when I did not in fact pick her, she got all mad and mopey. She even acted in a hostile manner toward my two BM at my bach party! WTF
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