So my fiancé has at the minimum two guys' weekends planed each year. There is one in the spring at our house (where I have to leave which isn't necessarily nice to me) and another in the fall at a buddy's lake or mountain house. He has always been the single guy, so it has never been an issue... until I moved in. It worked out last fall because I planned a weekend away during the same weekend. I'm frustrated because these "two" weekends are multiplying very quickly. So far in the past two or so month, he has had a weekend away with the guys because one of them has left his wife and now this man weekend started Thursday and will end Sunday. I don't necessarily blame him because he is participating in these other times with his friends who are going through difficult times..... But part of me is frustrated because it is feeling like one weekend out of each month he is being a friend for his (amazing - I really do like them) buddies. He gets mad if I get frustrated. I just don't know how to respond.
Additionally, they usually have a no social media rule, but the one single guy posts ridiculous stuff throughout the weekend. Like right now he has posted a picture of someone with a very intense bloody injury. That is on Facebook. I can't get in touch with my fiancé, and I have no idea who is hurt. This just seems over the top, and this is the stuff that makes me very angry! My fiancé is an amazing man, and I would bet my life that he isn't doing anything wrong. But I don't like seeing a picture of a bloody injury with no explanation! That worries me! What should I do?!?
Also, at what point should guys' weekend become a once a year thing instead of whenever the wind blows and they can get together? With him working out of town I don't want to be a clingy bitch, but I do want to have a minute to relax with my fiancé. Help!