My husband's brother is getting married this week and although I have offered numerous times to help with anything they need I am always left out. I am not in the wedding party which is fine with me, it's all her sisters which I am not upset about at all. I've asked to help with showers, b.party, making things, and every time I am shut out. I just discovered they are doing a bunch of wedding set up the day before and I wasn't asked to help. This past weekend they made things and again I was left out even though I have offered. On top of it my mil is having a bonding day with my soon to be sil making the family recipe cookie. When my husband and I got married last year she did no such thing with me. I just can't understand where all this snubbing is coming from when all I have done is offered to help and I mean help not give opinions or comments or suggestions on what she should do because it is her day. I need help figuring out how to set my hurt feelings aside so I can celebrate with them.