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Thank you's to those who got in a fist fight at our wedding??

Two of our male guests got into a fight fight at our reception after both had had too much to drink.  Their wives have since acted no better.  One has tried to apologize (we just can't talk to him quite yet after what he did (he's family)) and the other believes that somehow WE owe him an apology (???) (he's not family).  Do I send thank you notes to them for gifts they gave?  If so, what do I say?

Thanks!

Re: Thank you's to those who got in a fist fight at our wedding??

  • holyguacamole79holyguacamole79 a taco truck in Houston member
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    kidmel45 said:
    Two of our male guests got into a fight fight at our reception after both had had too much to drink.  Their wives have since acted no better.  One has tried to apologize (we just can't talk to him quite yet after what he did (he's family)) and the other believes that somehow WE owe him an apology (???) (he's not family).  Do I send thank you notes to them for gifts they gave?  If so, what do I say?

    Thanks!

    Yeah. You still need to send a thank you note. I'd just thank them for the gift and keep it short as possible.
  • JCbride2015JCbride2015 Dirty Jerz member
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    Send the notes. Just mention th gift, nothing about the fight or (on the other hand) about how nice it was to see them at he wedding. Because it wasn't.
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake Beyond the Wall member
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    Of course you send thank you notes for the gifts they gave. Regardless of their behavior, this shouldn't even be a question. Someone gives you a gift, you thank him or her for it. Period.
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  • They gave you a gift, you must thank them for that gift.  The note has nothing to do with their behavior.  I wouldn't see them anytime soon though.
  • Yes but I would simply say "Thank you for the "   " we will be sure to put it to good use" and sign your names....
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