Okay, I know I can't be the only person out there with this issue! Why do people not RSVP anymore??? It is so easy. I even put a stamp on it and address it, you know, all the normal RSVP things you do for guests! I have heard lots of previous brides and grooms complain about it, but MAN I had ZERO idea how much a pain it is to try to get people to RSVP! Our wedding is in 3 weeks and we STILL have almost 80 people we haven't heard from?!?!?!??! My mom gets on me, I get on my groom, my groom gets on his mom....because most of them are on the grooms side. It just sucks. I am trying to do 1,000 things, plus college full time, and working. I don't have time to babysit all these people to remind them what they need to do.
We are having the same issue with my bridal shower in ONE WEEK. Almost 20 people on the grooms side won't RSFREAKINGVP!? There will be dinner served, cake, and favors. We even make it super easy with an email address to RSVP to, cutting out the awkward phone call...LOL. My poor sister is freaking out and come to find out my future mother in law is one of them who hasn't RSVPed yet. It is just so disappointing. I know what people think, they think: 'oh well I am super late RSVPing, no big deal its just me'....but when over 50% of the people don't RSVP it IS a big deal.
One helpful hint that we taught by someone: In pencil, put a number on the back lower corner of the RSVP card that guest mail back in....this way when people forget to write their name on the RSVP, you will be able to figure out who they are!!! This has helped us a TON!!! Over 15 people did not put their name on the RSVP card. LOL We just kept saying, "Thank goodness we did this!!!"
I mean, come on, weddings are so expensive! We can't cushion the food, cake, and favors for 70 guests!! It is just a huge waste of money. Okay, Rant over!