Good afternoon ladies,
I hope this finds everyone doing well. My husband and I recently got married and have started settling into our new life. So far it's been really easy, living together is a little easier than I anticipated, and things are meshing pretty well. The only issue I seem to be having right now, is feeling like my husband is catering to my every whim and it's driving me bonkers. Everything is about what I want to do or what I want. I seem to be the one making all the decisions about where we go or what we do on a Saturday afternoon. It's making me crazy. He will throw out ideas but never says if there is something he would like specifically. He will throw out ten options that range all activities and will always finish with, "We don't have to do those, what would you rather do?" It's never "I would like to do this sometime. or I think I would like this for dinner." Everything has to have my final say. I know he is trying to be sweet and I've brought this up several times before, that I would like him to suggest things to do or make some calls once in a while, but It always goes back to what I want to do. Ladies, can you please give me some advice on how to bring this up in a more direct manner or how I can show him that I really need him to make a decision once in a while. I need him to make a plan or take the lead. It's honestly driving me crazy. I know he means well, it's just really frustrating because I feel like everything is my way and I hate that because I don't feel that way at all.
Thank you!