At least half of my guests will be traveling to attend my wedding. My fiancé and I have been living together for a few years now, and we really don't need anything. I was hoping to put something on our wedding website so that they know they are not obligated to buy us a gift AND travel all the way to the wedding, etc. Maybe something like "Your presence is our present. Please, no gifts." And we aren't planning on registering.
I'm not sure how people would feel about that, though. Maybe I could write something like, "In lieu of gifts, please feel free to donate to the American Hearth Society or charity of your choice."
What do you all think? Would people feel put off by this?