Hi! I'm considering letting my bridesmaids choose their own dresses and just giving them some guidelines like length and maybe material. I would love to have various shades of plum/purple. Has anyone done this (especially in my color palette)? Any advice? Thank you!!
Re: Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses
I would pick a palette of purples and give your BMs swatches to match- you can order swatches from Dessy. Then I'd just let them get any dress of your desired length in one of those purple hues, regardless of fabric choice. I don't think matching fabric types makes any difference in photos or makes them look somehow better.
And some ppl don't like how they look in certain fabrics, so if you are doing the mismatched route to begin with I say allow them the freedom to choose the fabric they think is most flattering on them and they like the best.
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
So, the dresses arrive, and (shocker), the only one whose dress fit was my sister's. I said screw it and told them to get purple dresses from somewhere. I honestly didn't care at this point.
Here's how it turned out:
I had given them the light blue pashminas as part of their gift, but I didn't plan on them wearing it. One of them said she's self-conscious of her arms, so she'd prefer to wear it for the wedding, and asked if I minded. The others liked the idea and followed suit.