Hi,I'm getting all stressed out because I went to call my fiance's former Catholic school and just found out that he wasn't confirmed. His family moved when he was in middle school so only his oldest sister got confirmed, which I didn't find out until this afternoon when the lady from the rectory and said she couldn't find any record for him getting confirmed. So, I text'd his mom and she said his sister said she was the only one that got confirmed. We thought he did, so we told the priest marrying us that we both had all our sacraments.
I know that people who are NOT catholic have to take all these classes to basically convert in order to become confirmed. But does anyone know if a Catholic who attends mass and belongs to a church also have to do the classes? I'm getting so stressed I feel like so many issues with the church wedding. I am trying to do everything the right way bc my mom had to get a convalidation like 11 years later bc my parents had a JOP wedding, and I want to get it done right the first time.
I literally was crying earlier bc I know he won't want to take the classes. But its important to me that we get married in the church and raise our children catholic. My best friend who is also getting married in the church and is Catholic said it shouldn't be too huge of a deal and to talk to the Priest who is marrying us. Her fiance is not Catholic nor plans to be. I feel like I'm having so many issues and we're both Catholic! It took us nearly 3 months just to join the church so I'm getting so stressed about all this stuff not working out properly! Thank Goodness our wedding isn't until next year.