so we are doing fake flowers and i am so glad because i love them. my FI's aunt is amazing and she is making our flowers. she had to go back home but she was here fro 2 days and we went flower shopping and she gave me mock ups of everything. and im so excited about it. they look awesome and she promised me that they would look even more awesome when she brings them back in July. i cant wait. this has taken a major stress off me and i really feel like the whole family is pitching in to get this stuff done. im so excited about everything.