FI is such a dork.
One of the STDs we sent out came back saying that the address didn't exist so I asked FI about it since it was for one of his cousins. Does he want to call and get a corrected address since the address that we were given by his dad is apparently wrong? Does he want to forget about inviting him?
It turns out that FI had given me the wrong name and had expected me to have another cousin in the guest list that he never mentioned (so 2 people didn't get STDs). He had given me a list of names of people he wanted to invite, I asked if he wanted to invite any more people, I reread the list to him to make sure, and when his dad sent me the family directory for FI in case he had forgotten names, I sent it to him, sent him a list of each individual he didn't name and read it out loud to him to make absolutely sure. He said no to each of those names, including the name of the cousin that he never mentioned that he wanted me to invite.
I'm pretty annoyed right now and kind of embarrassed since everyone else already received their STDs and contacted us to say that they received it and comment on how cute it is.
At this point, I feel that it's really up to FI if we resend and send STDs to those 2 cousins but I can't help but feel embarrassed about it, they having no doubt heard about the rest of the family receiving them. Will they feel like we put them on the guest list/sent them a STD as an afterthought and think of us rude if we send them STDs late? Or am I overthinking this? I need some wine...