OK, so this is going to sound like a rant, and it is, but I also want some good advice.
I am the MOH for my best friend, so of course am planning the shower. The other BMs and moms wanted to be involved too, but none have much money available to contribute. That's fine except that this is the only shower the bride is having and she is a flagrant extrovert which means she has to invite 50 of her closest friends and family (my fault for not putting a stop to that right away, but too late now). So we have to feed and entertain an enormous amount of guests. The bride insisted on no bridal bingo, the rest of the planning committee decided that we should have no games, activities, or prizes of any kind (not a bad idea, but how do you entertain large amounts of people who may or may not know each other?). The only thing they liked was to have each guest tell how they know the bride while she opens their gift (the bride already knows and does anyone else really care?). There will also be an advice book for guests to sign. The food budget is incredibly cheap.
In my mind, this equals three hours of forced chitchat with strangers while munching on those horrible veggie trays and deli trays with a side of nasty grocery store cake (am I the only one who thinks that kind of food is the pits?) and watching the bride open enormous stacks of gifts. (At least I think I put a stop to the crepe paper wedding bells.)
Sigh....is this thing redeemable? Or am I just weird and people actually enjoy this? I guess in my mind a nice shower is a classy, intimate affair with delicious food and time spent blessing the bride-to-be, not a parade of unnecessary glassware the bride decided to register for plus forced "sharing." I hate to host yet another horrible shower, but I feel like I'm beating my head against an uncreative brick wall