So, the FH and I are on quite a tight budget! We're paying for the whole wedding ourselves. Neither sets of parents have any strong views either way on our wedding (although a family member is insisting on making mince pies for us, which we are TOTALLY not complaining about), but they're from very different backgrounds, so it will be interesting bringing them all together!
Anyway, the first budget decision was made for us; we don't have masses of people we want to invite. It's mainly family and close friends (95% of whom I consider family anyway) so we're having 60 (huge, I know!) at the ceremony and then another 20 or so to join in for the food and partying afterwards.
We both love winter, so we're getting married in early December next year! Yay! We're hiring the village hall, I'm cooking (yes, you read that right, the bride is cooking her wedding feast!) and our photographer is a friend we've both know for many years.
My dress? Well, what's to say... I can't find one I like. I don't do fancy or frilly meringue concoctions. I like simple, elegant lacework, tiny amounts of sparkles. I want a dress I'll wear, not something that will wear me! I fully intend to wear wedged flip flops because they're comfortable. I don't do high heels.
In terms of flowers, I'm not having any! I'm making my bouquet and the boutonnieres out of fabric. Centre pieces are a combination of candles, baubles, wine bottles and jam jars which family are collecting for us. Fairy lights and Christmas decorations will be used to illuminate and decorate the rest of the room.
Our venue comes with a fully equipped commercial kitchen which can be hired for something like £50, which makes dinner a lot easier! I'm pre-cooking two dozen chickens, chunking up the meat and will re-heat the it in chicken stock/gravy. I'm serving it with roasted vegetables (which will again be pre-cooked and re-heated at the venue), a shed load of crusty bread and bits and pieces.
For dessert, we're doing a make-your-own hot chocolate bar which will be served with mini-brownie pieces, plus cupcakes which will form our wedding cake!
We're trying to do as much of this for ourselves, at least that way we can control it. I think the food and drink coming to a total of about £500 (~ $700), venue hire, all the legal stuff, ceremony, decorations, DJ, fabric, crafty bits and pieces, invitations and stationary is turning up at around the £1200 (~$1400) mark. FH's suit plus my dress are still to be added into the budget, but the whole thing should come to less than £3000,which we're pretty happy with.
Opinions on what we've got so far?