So I joined this community simply to tell my story and get some feedback. I'm the daughter of a minister, a man I love and respect very much. Recently, at a family dinner, he informed me that he has a man in mind for me. I thought it was funny and laughed and said, "Oh yah? Who?" He shook his head and said he was praying about it. Since then my sister has informed me that the man my father "has in mind for me" is someone I've met, but haven't seen in several years. Apparently, they all had a family meeting on it and agreed that this person and I would make a great couple. So with the one detail I know about him (that I haven't seen him in several years) there's only one that comes to my mind. He will be SO on this forum simply because what else will I call him? Apparently, my father has already talked to SO's father. My family is not a cult at all. Fairly typical modern Christian family. I'm torn between feeling very amused and running away. So...thoughts? (For the record, my father would never actually arrange my marriage. In the past I have made some awful choices that landed me in very abusive relationships and I think he's just trying to genuinely help. He has heard me mention wanting to get married several times, so please don't picture him a cultish ogre!)