I just wanted to share my story about my friends wedding this past weekend. It was a lovely outdoor park wedding and although the weather wasn't perfect (it was a bit chilly) the ceremony and reception were still lovely. There were no gaps, the bride and groom thanked each guest for coming (both receiving line and table visits) everyone was provided snacks during the "cocktail" hour, a full meal, and dessert, along with non-alcholoic drinks. There was even a DJ and some space for dancing too!
All of this was done on a "Shoe-String" budget (I believe it was around $3,000 total and there were about 65-75 people). So you see, you can have a great wedding without going broke!!!!!