My best friend did not show up to my bridals shower and I have yet to recieve an apology or an explanation on why she did not go. The last I heard she gave money for my bachlorete party, I am not going into too much details but I text her after letting her know that her money will be return because I do not want her help. She then did text back only to tell me that I am ridiculous, Of course I get upset and I told her how I felt about the whole situation and her response was "Well am I invited to your wedding or not". I feel that she cares more about going to my wedding as a social event than about my friendship with her. I just don't know what I should do. I don't want to regret my decision later on in life.