You ladies have all been so supportive and given me such great advice, I wanted to see what your thoughts are on this. FI and I are getting married on 12/12 (Friday). Our idea was to take a mini honeymoon to the Poconos that Saturday to Monday. then we started talking...we've started a tradition of ringing in the New Year in the Poconos. (My bday is New Year's Day). We started thinking should we take that tradition and make it into a mini birthday/honeymoon? Since we're paying for the wedding ourselves we won't have the money to go twice.
Thoughts??